03/21/2025
In a world that expects perfectionism and as a recovering perfectionist I need to repeat this to myself often! Growing flowers will never go perfectly: weather, pests, my own missed timings, etc. prove that daily, but may my failures always help me to grow.
If you've been following my journey, you know I'm obsessed with FAILURE.
Weird, right? 🤷Especially in a world of carefully curated highlight reels where everyone's life looks picture-perfect.
But here's the truth—those perfect posts?
They're just split-second glimpses into real lives filled with struggles, doubts, pain and overwhelming feelings of inadequacy.
Do you feel these things too?
I see you. I hear you.
And please know: You are NOT alone.
NOBODY is immune from these feelings.
NOBODY is entitled to success all the time.
NOBODY has it all figured out (and if they tell you they do, they’re either lying or trying to sell you something😳).
Before starting my farm, I was a self-professed perfectionist.
Psst… "perfectionist" is just code for "someone afraid of looking inadequate, foolish, or unskilled"... which is ABSURD because those feelings describe exactly what it's like to be a beginner learning something new! We've all been there.
When I started farming, reality set in quickly —perfectionism would kill my business.
I needed to completely reframe “failure”.
Instead of avoiding it, I learned to EMBRACE failure as my greatest teacher.
Each failed crop, each failed experiment, became evidence of my courage and audacity to try something new.♥️
Here’s the secret to learning to love failure:
Remove the shame from failure.
Failure is neutral.
It's not a reflection of your worth—it's simply feedback on what to try differently next time.
I actually trained my brain to get excited when I fail, because failure is proof that I’m DOING something, instead of allowing fear to keep me small. 🙌
Too many people tiptoe through life, playing it safe because they fear looking foolish.
But I'd rather fail gloriously in pursuit of something meaningful than succeed at being “perfect”.
Perfect is boring and overrated, y'all. 😉
❓What dream could you pursue today if you weren't afraid to fail?
Drop it in the comments—I'd love to cheer you on as you take that brave first step! ✨