03/24/2023
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I Owe You An Apology, By Michael Baisden
Sometimes we get so use to seeing life from our perspective that we forget that our normal isnāt everyone elseās.
For years Iāve promoting Transparency believing that adults actually evolve into honest peopleā¦but I was wrongā¦and I apologize for being so naive.
I also promoted open and Poly relationships thinking that people would prefer to be honest about having s*x with other peopleā¦but again I was wrongā¦and I apologize.
How in the hell can you expect people who canāt cultivate one healthy relationship to manage two or more? I feel so stupid even bringing up the subject!! Ugghh
And lastly I want to apologize for assuming that grown ass men and women know how to communicate honestly about what they want and who they really are!
The truth is people prefer lies, they donāt care about the other persons needs, and people approach you not even knowing what the f**k they want!
I have finally learned that Iām not anywhere near the norm, and neither are many of youā¦ that is, if youāre honest, are an effective communicator, and have emotional intelligence.
Iām so sorry for not taking men and womenās real life experiences into account! And that truth is thatās itās pretty messed up out here in these streets.
And while Iāll always be optimistic I must do a better job of understanding the level of disappointment and trauma that others are experiencing all because people CANāT be transparent!
People start by lying to themselves about being āgood peopleā which makes it easier for them to lie to you!
It took me a while to understand all the foolishness and crap you guys have to put up with, even into your 50ās and 60āsā¦but I get it now! And again, I apologize!
A man in my position of influence has to do betterā¦and I will! Thanks for the lesson! ~ Michael Baisden