đ The most important wedding day items you donât want to forget! Engaged couples SAVE THIS!
Letâs be real wedding mornings are chaotic. Between getting ready, sharing laughs (& maybe a few happy tears) with your besties & trying to soak in every magical moment, itâs easy to overlook some essentials. A little prep now = big peace of mind later.
đš Food & Beverages for Your Getting Ready Space A shocking number of couples forget this! Wedding days are long & youâll be busy. You likely wonât eat until cocktail hour or dinner (& some couples donât even eat then!). Plan for food & drinks to be delivered or brought in no one wants to be hangry on their wedding day.
đš A Backup Steamer While we recommend steaming dresses the night before when possible (& most planners will have a steamer), itâs always nice to have a backup.
đš Phone & Device Chargers Your phone will be working overtime. Make sure it stays alive!
đš Comfy, Easy-to-Change-Out-of Clothes Brides, a button-down or zip-up top is key, so you wonât have to pull a shirt over your freshly done hair & makeup
đš A Bluetooth Speaker & Wedding Morning Playlist Set the tone with music that hypes you up keeps the vibes upbeat.
đš Wedding Attire Essentials: Dress, undergarments, veil, suit/tux, tie/bowtie, socks, dress shirt (plus an extra for hot days), wedding shoes & comfy shoes for later & a sweater or jacket.
đš Hygiene & Toiletries Especially if you're staying at a hotel or heading to a honeymoon suite afterward.
đš Emergency Kit This should include safety pins, fashion tape, a mini sewing kit, stain remover, pain relievers & anything else for last-minute fixes,especially if you don't have a planner.
đš Marriage License & Vows Do not leave these behind! Youâd be surprised how often it happens.
đš Rings & Accessories Wedding rings, jewelry, cufflinks, garter & any sentimental items.
đš Cash & Vendor Tips Have labeled envelopes ready for tipping pros.đš Perfume & Col
đ˘ PSA: There is NO such thing as a wedding day without surprises!
Somewhere, right now, a couple is scrolling through Pinterest, dreaming of their 'perfect' wedding day imagining the flowers, the dress, the laughter. What theyâre not imagining? No matter how meticulously planned your wedding is, something will happen behind the scenes. Maybe itâs minor a missing boutonniere or a timeline shift. Maybe itâs major like an unexpected downpour forcing a last-minute venue flip or a wedding cake left behind at the hotel (yes, itâs happened!).
Iâm not saying this to stress you out. Iâm saying this because this is exactly why I do what I do. The difference between a stressful day & a seamless one? Me. ⨠Iâm your calm in the storm. Your problem-solver. Your wedding day CEOâCalm, Efficient & On it. đ The bigger the wedding, the more moving parts. A $300K wedding doesnât mean fewer issues it often means more! More vendors, more logistics, more people & more human error.
đ When you work with me, you donât just get a planner. You get peace of mind. I step in before chaos reaches you, solving problems before you even realize they exist. You get to enjoy your day while I handle everything behind the scenes.
đĄ Real Stories From Weddings Iâve Managed:
đ The time a wedding cake was left behind at the hotel & I went on a rescue mission to get it back before cake-cutting.
đ When a guest backed their car into a ditch & I gathered a team to push it out (while still running the wedding!).
đĽ The time I had to put out an actual fire, yes, a real fire without missing a beat.
đ¤ When I stepped in as an impromptu bouncer to remove an out-of-control guest, keeping the celebration safe & fun.
The best part? Most of my couples never even knew these things happened. Because thatâs my job. To handle it all gracefully, efficiently & without disrupting your once-in-a-lifetime moment. While Iâm busy putting out fires (sometimes literally), youâll
Wedding Planners Arenât Just for Luxury Weddings. Every Wedding That Deserves to Run Smoothly
Somewhere along the way, the narrative formed that wedding planners are only for extravagant, six-figure weddings dripping in opulence. But letâs set the record straight no matter what kind of wedding experience youâre dreaming of, it will require coordination & management to make it all run smoothly.
Sure, you can have a wedding without a planner. But ask yourself: who will be behind the scenes making all the moving pieces work together seamlessly?
A movie needs a director. A plane needs a pilot.
A ship needs a captain. đ Your wedding? It needs a professional to make sure everything happens how & when itâs supposed to.
Now, letâs back up a little & talk about how a wedding planner provides expert guidance for any size wedding experience.
â We handle everything from wedding pro selection to timeline creation, contract reviews & day-of execution. This means you save time, avoid overwhelming research & ensure you're working with trusted professionals who align with your vision, personality & price point.
â We connect you with vetted, high-quality wedding pros who not only deliver incredible service but also fit your aesthetic & priorities.
â We help refine your vision, curate cohesive colors, layouts & dĂŠcor & bring your dream aesthetic to life. Youâll feel empowered & confident in every decision, without second-guessing or feeling lost in a sea of Pinterest boards.
â We create a highly detailed timeline & communicate with all wedding pros to ensure smooth execution. You wonât have to worry about what happens when everything will flow seamlessly, so you can focus on celebrating.
â We develop & implement backup plans for weather, delays & unexpected hiccups. No matter what happens, your wedding will go on beautifullyâwithout added stress on you, your family, or your wedding party.
Your wedding is a once-in-a-lifetime experience. It deserves
đ¨ Wedding Planning PSA: Donât Skip the Food Tasting! đ¨
When planning your wedding, youâre making hundreds of decisions, but one of the biggest (& most expensive) is your catering. Whether your venue provides in-house catering or youâre hiring an outside caterer, hereâs one non-negotiable step you canât skip: the food tasting.
I once had a couple who toured one venue, fell in love with the space & booked it on the spot. The venue provided in-house catering & at the time, the couple assumed the food would be great. Months laterâjust three months before their weddingâthe venue held a mass food tasting. It was loud, chaotic & there wasnât enough food to go around. When the couple finally got to try their wedding menu, they were severely disappointed.
The worst part? They were stuck. Since the venue contract required them to use in-house catering, their only options were to accept the menu as-is or pay an outrageous fee for modifications. To make matters worse, the chef couldnât accommodate one of the wedding party members' dietary needs. đŹ
The lesson? Always, ALWAYS do a food tasting before signing a contract with a venue that includes catering or hiring a caterer. If they donât offer one beforehand, even for a small fee? đŠ Thatâs a red flag! đŠ
One of the biggest advantages of hiring a wedding planner? We know these red flags before you ever sign a contract. I guide my couples through the process, ensuring they love their wedding meal & never get stuck with a bad contract. (This couple made this choice BEFORE bringing me on)
Your wedding meal is more than just foodâitâs part of your guest experience, your memories & your overall wedding day happiness. Donât settle for something you donât love!
đ Did you do a tasting before booking your venue or caterer? Tell me in the comments! âŹď¸
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If youâve spent even five minutes on Pinterest or TikTok, youâve probably seen a post claiming to have unlocked the ultimate budget-friendly wedding hack: Just have a backyard wedding!
We totally get the appeal. Backyard weddings can feel intimate, personal & like a great way to save money. But hereâs the thing: theyâre not always the inexpensive or practical option they appear to be.
As a wedding planner specializing in outdoor wedding experiences, Iâve worked with couples who envisioned a dreamy backyard celebration, only to realize that the logistics (& costs) were way more than expected.
What those viral posts donât mention? The behind-the-scenes logistics that can quickly add up:
đĄ Power & Electricity Needs: A homeâs existing electrical system likely canât handle the power demands of a wedding (think: lighting, DJ or band, catering)
đ Guest Parking & Transportation: Unlike traditional venues, homes donât come with designated parking. Will guests park on the street? Will you need to rent a nearby lot & shuttle them? These logistics need to be thought through early.
đ˝ Restroom Facilities: Most home plumbing systems arenât built to accommodate dozens (or hundreds) of guests. Many couples need to rent restroom trailers, which arenât cheap & require a plan for placement.
đ Uneven Ground & Flooring Rentals: Many backyards arenât perfectly level, meaning you might need to rent flooring for a dance floor
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Weather Backup Plan: Every wedding needs a weather backup plan. If the home doesnât have an indoor alternative, youâll likely need to rent a tent (which can cost thousands & takes days to set up).
đ¨âđł Catering Logistics: Most caterers need a full prep spaceâif the home doesnât have an industrial-sized kitchen, they may need to build a temporary one, which means bringing in additional rentals.
đŚ Rental & Setup Logistics: Unlike traditional venues, everything needs to be brought in, tables, chairs, linens, pl
Wedding Planning Looks Easy⌠Until Youâre Actually Doing It.
From the outside, wedding planning looks so effortlessâgorgeous inspiration on Pinterest, dreamy wedding content on Instagram & of course, the magic of movies making it all seem like a breeze.
The reality? Wedding planning is a huge undertaking & most couples donât realize just how overwhelming it can be until theyâre in the middle of it. You start off full of excitementâbooking your venue, choosing your wedding date, maybe even locking in a few of your wedding pros. But then comes decision fatigue.
Suddenly, youâre drowning in choices:
đ¨ What colors should the wedding party wear?
đ˝ď¸ Whatâs the best catering option?
đ Which font should you use for the invitations?
đś Do you want a DJ, live band, or both?
đ¸ Which flowers fit your vision & your budget?
Those are just the big decisions. There are countless micro-decisions youâll need to make along the way & it can quickly feel like too much.
This is exactly why wedding planning is ranked as one of the top 10 most stressful jobsâbecause even with all the joy, itâs A LOT to manage. Thatâs where a wedding planner comes in! We take the endless decisions, logistics & stress off your plate so that you can actually enjoy being engaged.
If youâre planning your wedding without a wedding planner, thatâs okay too! Here are some tips to help:
âď¸ Break it down into smaller, manageable tasks.
âď¸ Lean on your partner, trusted friends, family & your wedding pro team for support.
âď¸ Take breaksâwedding planning burnout is real! Schedule time away from planning to recharge.
No matter what, know that feeling overwhelmed is normalâbut you donât have to do this alone. đ
Planning a 2025 or 2026 wedding? Start early & letâs make magic together! â¨
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đĄ Wedding Planning Detail You Might Have Overlooked: Wedding Pro Meals!
When planning your wedding, youâre thinking about so many detailsâyour guest list, your seating chart, the perfect signature cocktails⌠But one thing couples often forget? Making sure your wedding pros are included in your catering count.
It may not seem like a big deal at first, but imagine this: Your wedding prosâyour planner, photographer, videographer, DJ/band & other key wedding prosâhave been working for 8+ hours to make your dream day come to life. Theyâre running on adrenaline, ensuring every detail is just right, barely stopping for a breath. The only chance they have to take a break? During your dinner service. đ Which pros (vendors) need to be fed? Anyone who is onsite for 4+ hours or present for the majority of your wedding experience.
This typically includes:
Your wedding planner/coordinator & their team
Your photographer & videographer
Your DJ or live band
Your photo booth attendant (if separate from another pro)
Specialty pros who stay on-site, such as a live painter
đ What kind of meal is required? Most wedding pros have a clause in their contract requiring a hot, substantial meal. A cold sandwich & chips is not acceptable. Just like your guests, your wedding pros need real food to refuel so they can keep bringing their A-game.
đ When should they be served?
They should eat immediately after the couple is served. Why? Because this is the only window of time theyâll have to take a break before they need to jump back into action for toasts, dances & the rest of the reception.
Now, you might be thinking⌠âBut I donât get fed at my job?â True, but the law does require you to have a lunch break. Your wedding pros do not get that option. We canât leave to grab food & we certainly canât go 10+ hours without eating while running around making magic happen.
𫶠We prioritize the care of our wedding pro team because we know that a well-fed, rech
Letâs talk about something that NO ONE wants to think about when planning their dream outdoor wedding: the weather. âď¸âď¸âď¸đŹď¸
Hereâs the thingâMother Nature doesnât check your wedding Pinterest board.
I get itâno one wants to picture rain on their wedding day, unexpected heat waves, or wildfire smoke filling the sky. But hereâs the truth: weather is unpredictable, no matter what season youâre getting married in. As much as I wish I could control it, I canât. What I can do is make sure youâre 100% prepared with a backup plan that wonât leave you scrambling at the last minute.
As a wedding planner specializing in outdoor weddings, I have seen it all:
đ§ď¸ A June 15th wedding hit with a full-on hailstorm.
đĽ A September wedding where it was 106 degrees during setup.
đ¨ A wedding morning where the air was so smoky from nearby wildfires that the couple almost called the whole thing off.
đŚď¸ A wedding week where the forecast flipped from sunny skies to non-stop rain (spoiler alert: we had to pivot fast).
One of the biggest mistakes I see couples make (before they hire me)? Booking a venue without a solid backup plan. Before you sign that contract:
âď¸ Ask about backup options. Does the venue have an indoor space? A tented area? A way to pivot if the weather takes a turn?
â¤ď¸ Make sure you actually LIKE the backup plan. If the rain plan is a cramped room that doesnât fit your vision, you might regret your decision later.
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Check for flexibility. Some venues allow you to make a last-minute call. Others require a decision days in advance. Know what youâre agreeing to.
The hard truth: If your venue doesnât have a solid backup plan, thereâs only so much your planner can do when the weather changes last minute. So letâs make sure youâre set up for successârain or shine!
đŹ Drop a đŚď¸ in the comments if weather is one of your wedding worries! Save this or share it with your engaged friends â¤ď¸
Attention 2025 & 2026 Couples: Don't Wait Too Long to Book Your Dream Wedding Pros!
You found your dream wedding venue, the dream photographer & a wedding planner you just click with. Everything is falling into place⌠until you wait too long to book & suddenly, theyâre unavailable.
Oof. Talk about heartbreak. đ
The reality is, wedding venues, planners & photographers are booking out a year (or more) in advance & dates fill FAST. We know you want to do your researchâ& you absolutely should! But waiting too long can mean missing out on your top choices, leading to unnecessary stress & disappointment.
An Inquiry Does NOT Hold Your Date
This is a big one. Just because you reach out to a venue or wedding pro doesnât mean your date is reserved. If you disappear for a few weeks (or months) & then come back, thereâs a good chance someone else has snagged your spot. We hate having to tell couples, âSorry, weâre already booked.â
Why Wedding Pros Book Up So Quickly
Most of us are small businesses, meaning we only take a limited number of weddings each year to ensure we give each couple the attention they deserve. So when a date is goneâitâs gone.
What You Can Do to Secure Your Dream Wedding Team
âď¸ Start your research early. The sooner you reach out, the more options youâll have.
âď¸ Ask your top choices about their availability & booking process. Every wedding pro is different!
âď¸ Be ready to make a decision. If you know you love a vendor, donât wait too long to book them!
âď¸ Read the contract & ask questions. Once youâre ready, make it official so you donât lose your spot.
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