Jillin’ It : Your Love Liaison

12/31/2024

SWEET SURRENDER. It’s amazing how much satisfaction can come from simply LETTING GO. Just KNOWING that true strength and satisfaction is in TRUSTING THE PROCESS, (in the gym and in life.) This has been a very hard lesson for me to learn and to be honest, I am still constantly reminding myself to practice what I preach in this aspect. But I’m only human and so are you. The juicy stuff is in the journey, Jilly.

Journey > Destination.

12/30/2024

New Year, New Boo? Let’s start the year with a BaNg!

Join us for a Singles Mixer with Speed Dating option at Elicit Brewing’s Hearsay Bar + Lounge with casual ice-breakers to help you make connections.

Mixer is open-aged and Speed Dating will be grouped by the age range you indicate at check out but *space is limited for speed dating in each age range so get your tickets ASAP to secure your spot!

Looking for a Promo Code? Those are reserved for LoVe CluB members along with tons of other benefits and perks. Jillin’ It Love Club is ideal for singles who are ready to move beyond casual dating and are looking for meaningful, lasting connections.

Link in bio and always at www.Jillinit.com

12/28/2024

A LOVE LETTER TO MYSELF. I don’t write them often enough. I know this and I say it all the time. Self love is THE REAL LOVE. But damn, if life doesn’t just keep serving up the LESSONS.

LOVING YOURSELF must go beyond loving yourself UNTIL you find a partner. In fact, once you actually find someone you like to pursue a relationship with, that’s when you need to TURN IT UP. TURN UP THAT LOVE FOR YOURSELF.

It’s so easy to get swept away. To rely on someone else’s feelings for you to FEEL LOVED. But the truth is that even in THE MOST secure attachment with a partner, with friends and even with family, your love for yourself, your trust in yourself, your honoring yourself IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PIECE.

IT IS A MIRROR. How you want to be loved, how you WILL BE LOVED, any way you slice it, is going to be a reflection of the way you LOVE AND NURTURE AND HONOR YOURSELF. Consistently.

READ THAT AGAIN AND GO WRITE THAT LOVE LETTER TO YOURSELF. I’m rewriting mine and it starts like this… “Damnnnnnn, Girl!”

xo



📸 : 👌🏻🍟

12/19/2024

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12/16/2024

Hey, hey! Get off the apps and meet me and lots of local singles at Space Cat on Thursday 12/19 at 7 for our annual Singles Soirée with live music + some fun surprises.

Advanced tickets are a must so grab yours before they’re gone. 👉🏻 www.Jillinit.com

12/09/2024

Extra! Extra! Read all about it. Check out my interview with the good folks over at DatingAdvice.com + tell a friend if you’re so inclined. So many misconceptions surrounding Matchmaking so get your questions answered.

At Jillin’ It it’s all for LoVe. xo

Art lives linked in bio + https://www.datingadvice.com/for-women/clearing-up-matchmaking-misconceptions

12/08/2024

Don’t worry. I won’t be singing at the Singles Soiree on Thursday 12/19, my boy will be and we just LOVE having him. He always brings the good times and good vibes.

Get tickets or www.Jillinit.com

Looking for a promo code? Those are reserved for LoVe CluB members so get in there at the link in bio. 💃🏻

12/02/2024

Tis’ the season for SINGLES MINGLIN’! We have such a great group joining us already. Do not sleep on this opportunity, singles. Space is limited so secure your spot today.

And because ‘tis the season of giving, expect surprises and special gifts just for you—after all, you deserve a little extra magic this holiday.

*Bring a small wrapped gift to participate in the gift exchange. This’ll be fun and a great way to get to connect with other singles.

Remember, dressing to impress isn’t just a suggestion—it’s your ticket to staying on the “nice list” and making a memorable impression. So, come decked out in your finest attire and get ready to connect, celebrate, and perhaps find that special someone amidst the festivities!

Looking for a PROMO CODE? Join the Jillin’ It LoVe CluB for member only savings, access to reserved tickets and perks, member only monthly events, prefered database status to be considered as a match for Jill’s VIP Matchmaking clients and so much more. Learn more and join the Jillin’ It Love Club today!

Link in bio + always at www.Jillinit.com

12/01/2024

Today is the last day to stay on the “NICE LIST” and get early bird pricing for our annual Singles Soiree on 12/19! Last year was so much fun! Get tickets now! Prices increase at MIDNIGHT! Live music + Local singles + good times + gifts.

💘 LoVe Club members don’t forget to use your code + save even more.

See you at the soirée at on the 19th, singles!

Tickets + info @ + www.Jillinit.com

11/29/2024

Sending BIG LOVE and vibes from my family to yours as we kick off this holiday season.

Here for you at www.Jillinit.com. 💘

xo,
Jill

11/22/2024

It’s Friday. Are you in LoVe? ♥️ I’ve got something for you…

Jillin’ It Love Club is ideal for singles who are ready to move beyond casual dating and are looking for meaningful, lasting connections. With access to monthly expert-led discussions, live Q&A sessions, and a preferred status in our matchmaking database, you’ll gain the insights and visibility needed to turn promising matches into serious relationships.

🗓️ November’s Member-Only Online event is coming up on Tuesday 11/26.

I’m thrilled to be able to offer this and to be serving you in new ways. Incredibly grateful for a wonderful year of LoVe so here’s my gift to you. 👉🏻 Register by Sunday 11/24 at midnight with the pay in full option and get December on me. It’s a no brainer. xo

Link in bio + stories and as always you can find everything I do for YOU at www.Jillinit.com

BiG LoVe!

xo, Jill

11/19/2024

Well that was a blast! Packed house at last night loaded with singles for a sweet speed dating experience. Big thanks to the brave ones who came out to play and to the team at ZSTRICT for having us again. Such a great group last night. Tons of matches made, digits exchanged and connections sparked. Thanks for being a part of it!

UP NEXT: Next Tuesday 11/26 is our Members Only online roundtable (Past topics include: How to Have Better First Dates, The Art of Flirting and Green Flags vs Red Flags) ending with a live dating coaching Q+A. Bring your questions! I’ve got answers. (This event is exclusively for members of the Jillin’ It LoVe CluB. Opt in today at the link in bio and I’ll send you the private event link.)

To LOVE! 🥂

11/17/2024

LAST CALL! Only a few spots left for tomorrow’s Speed Dating event in the golf simulators at at in Stamford! Claim your spot before they’re sold out!

at always at www.Jillinit.com

See ya tomorrow, singles! xo

11/12/2024

WHAT A TRIP! Incredibly grateful for the opportunity to attend the Matchmakers Alliance International conference in Mexico again this year with matchmakers from all over the globe. This is truly such a special group of collaborative powerhouses, mentors and friends. Conferences by day, networking by night. Headed home bursting with ideas and inspo for ways to better serve my clients. Missing my babies so much but in the end it’s all for them. Up, up and away we go. 💘

11/11/2024

Modern dating can feel like walking a tightrope—balancing between connection and independence, excitement and uncertainty. It’s risky, but hey, sometimes the juice is in the journey. Here’s to finding your balance, whether you’re single or not. xo

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11/03/2024

We’ve got TWO events LIVE, singles! If you plan on coming you should definitely get in the Jillin’ It Love Club first. Member-only perks and PROMO CODE are one of the many benefits. ;)

💘 Join the Jillin’ It LoVe CluB for member-only monthly roundtable events, live Q+A, preferred database status to be considered as a match for VIP Matchmaking clients and so much more. Learn more and join the Jillin’ It Love Club with the

P.S. The Mystery + Mingling event is for singles 25-85! Escape rooms will be grouped by age.

Tickets + info at link in bio + www.Jillinit.com

10/28/2024

When he randomly snaps pictures of you… It’s a love language. What makes you feel seen and adored? Tell me in the comments? 💘