Okc Wedding Minister

11/22/2024

👀😶😯😲🤯 Nope, all the nope. I wouldn't need 2 minutes to shut that woman down. No matter what others are planning (proposal during reception, drunken shenanigans, disrespecting your partner, overzealous photographer in your face, people wanting to bring uninvited guests to your per plate sit down dinner, whatever) I will be the bad guy for you. Throw me under the bus, I don't tolerate this.

In a Reddit post, a woman describes how at her sister's wedding, the groom's stepmother interrupted the ceremony to ask the officiant to perform her vow renewal before the service ended. The officiant refused. Get all of the details on the woman's unexpected request here.

11/09/2024

HOW TO MARRY IN OKLAHOMA...

Okay since I've had a lot of questions about my post, I just want to let you guys know the process of how to get married in Oklahoma.

A license signing does not include vows or ceremony, it's just a legal signing of a document. You can still have your wedding ceremony at any time, though the date of your legal marriage will be the date of the signing.

First you need to set up an appointment with an officiant. There are actually several of us in the city and a surprising amount that are more than happy to marry any LGBTQ+ couples. If I am not able to myself, I know how to contact others that can. Some are also offering free same s*x officiant services.

Once you have a appointment with an officiant, you contact the county clerk's office of whatever city you live in. Here in OKC, often Edmond does same day licenses but in OKC downtown you do have to have an appointment in advance. You have to BOTH be there to get the license issued. They will tell you what paperwork you will need.

Once you get your marriage license from the county clerk, you bring that and at least two adult witnesses to wherever you have your appointment set up with your officiant. I happen to have a venue/chapel, Ever After Events Venue and Studio , that is pre-decorated and I am more than happy to have anyone take pictures in my venue. I also offer several actual wedding ceremony packages that are affordable.

Once you have the two witnesses, yourselves, and your officiant sign your license (congrats, you're married!) you can take it back to the county clerk's office. Both of you don't have to be there to return it. Then they can issue you certified copies which you can use for any kind of paperwork such as insurance.

Important rules:

You cannot sign the license on the grounds of the county clerk's office and judges no longer sign.

Do NOT sign it before bringing it to your officiant.

It MUST be signed in black ink.

Signatures must be legible and written in full, as they are printed on the certificate (including middle names and new names, if changed). All other written portions should be in print.

If, somehow you make a mistake, put a single straight line through the messed up portion, and initial, then try to fit the correct information on the same line or just above (writing small from the get-go helps). Do not scratch it out, do not try to use white-out or any other kind of product such as that.

For any other questions, please PM me.

08/17/2024

All setup to do handfasting ceremonies until 6 at Pagan Pride at the Expo Center! Free entry 🥰

06/12/2024

Feeling thankful to witness the journey of these shared souls.

06/11/2024

How cute are these two??

06/03/2024

This makes my heart so happy!

05/25/2024

Some decorating shenanigans from today.

05/20/2024

05/15/2024

New event for next month! Bridgerton Brunch Mystery Tea

05/08/2024

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/simply-mad-tea-party-tickets-851195126537?aff=ebdssbdestsearchTicket sales end soon!

05/03/2024

Some of my fancier pieces for adults to use at my Simply Mad High Tea party, May 11th from 2-4. There will be teas and treats, a mini top hat and potion making class, facepainting, and more!!
Tickets on sale now at https://www.eventbrite.com/e/simply-mad-tea-party-tickets-851195126537?utm-campaign=social&utm-content=attendeeshare&utm-medium=discovery&utm-term=listing&utm-source=cp&aff=ebdsshcopyurl&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAabjDTps38aFNc6u88_isrv9FpJMicUhgtfYxLpDNaCyC9kVOWgX5AxlVdY_aem_ARc-gLUhG9Skwp-cZ1blqsl23qxvgMIvLuH3CqmCILVJMcGoxED6WS_7LXvWQ3CpKpwoaLUIdxPpNbvLQh7Kwc5m


It's not an "addiction"...*coughs*

04/28/2024

Congratulations to the Evans Family!

04/15/2024

First sample of our blank mini hats for the Simply Mad Tea Party next month Ever After Events Venue and Studio ! I am so looking forward to seeing the creativity you all have when you decorate your own! Remember, tickets are on sale now and you can get an early bird discount!