07/06/2025
I love Essence of Us Photography. Here they give a lot of great insights on how to go about your big day photography shoots.
"But isn't it bad luck to see each other before the ceremony?" 🤔
I totally get it! Tradition runs deep, and there's something undeniably romantic about that aisle moment being the very first time you see each other on your wedding day.
But let me share why first looks have become one of my absolute favorite moments to photograph, and why 70% of my couples are now choosing this intimate option:
💕 It's YOUR moment - Those raw, unfiltered reactions? They belong to just the two of you. No audience pressure, no wondering if you look okay crying - just pure, authentic emotion between you and your person.
⏰ Timeline magic - We can capture those dreamy golden hour portraits together AFTER your first look, instead of frantically rushing through photos while your cocktail hour is happening without you.
😌 Nerves? What nerves? - I can't tell you how many grooms have told me seeing their bride before the ceremony actually calmed their wedding day jitters. There's something powerful about reconnecting with your best friend before the big show.
📸 More time for what matters - Family photos and wedding party shots done before the ceremony = more time dancing and celebrating with your guests after!
🌅 Chef's kiss lighting - Earlier in the day usually means that gorgeous, soft natural light that makes everyone look like they're glowing (because you are! ✨)
That said - and this is important - if walking down that aisle and seeing your partner's face for the first time that day makes your heart sing, then THAT'S what we're doing! Your wedding day should feel authentically YOU, and I'm here to make any choice absolutely magical.
What's calling to your heart? That traditional aisle reveal or a quiet first look moment? Both are beautiful - I just want to make sure you know all your options! 💭
This moment was captured immediately following the first look. I LOVE this shot because it shows the intimate moment enjoyed by this sweet couple as they prepare to say 'I do!'