07/31/2023
Yesterday I co-officiated a Hindu-Jewish wedding ceremony with Swami Jagadishwarananda (of the Brahma Premananda Ashram/Temple in Tigard) at Jenkins Estate in Beaverton, OR. It was truly an amazing wedding, with 2 days of gatherings before the actual wedding. Friday eve we attended a combined Sangeet-Shabbat dinner at Crystal Springs Rhodie Garden. Many received henna designs on hands and arms, including us.
The wedding began with the groom on a very well decorated horse! Of course! Just like in India! With drums and fanfare….a huge crowd surrounding him (the groom is Jewish). Will post photos later as I didn’t take many day of but will get from photographer.
Swami-Ji clocked the ceremony at one hour - considering we interwove Jewish ritual into the Hindu - and spoke of the similarities, including between the Mandap and Chuppah - both structures under which brides and grooms marry - The Swami and I co-officiated 2 other ceremonies over the years, so we’re delighted to work together again.
275 guests from all over the country and the world mingled together, danced the hora, the bride and groom had well rehearsed their Bollywood-style first dance, we all danced to “we are family!” Swaggat food was served buffet style. Scrumptious! I enjoyed being at a table with family members from Delhi, Iowa and CA.
Such an amazing evening!
Blessings to the amazing couple - Jonah and Nirali - and looking forward to another wedding next weekend.
I am taking on very few weddings this summer - as they require so much energy, especially these large affairs. Delighted to have been involved in this one.
Will include here the not great photos I took of the now empty mandap/chuppah, some dance photos and their ketubah (Jewish marriage contract) executed by the groom’s father. Plus a cool one of DJ Anjali (winds up she is good friends with one of Yehudah’s sons).