05/29/2024
Dear ones,
Do you find yourself struggling this time of year? I've been there. I'm holding your hand from afar and I want you to know that help is out there. Sometimes, simply having someone to talk to each day and release your feelings to is so, so helpful and comforting.
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Heal through writing" Pen Pal course is something I started doing a few years ago when I became a Certified Grief Support Specialist and Spiritual Mentor.
It's a month long-7 days a week support via email.
If you are looking for one-on-one daily support ....keep reading.
I talk to people about all types of grief: death, divorce, loss of pet, loss of partner, loss of job, life changes, health challenges, parenting struggles, and more. I'm here to hold your hand, gift you my professional guidance and personal experience, and wrap you in warmth and hope each day. This is not a replacement for therapy but is a unique, safe, and simple way to get your hand held through a hard time in your life. I have talked to thousands of women and men all over the globe and helped walk them through difficult struggles in their lives.
I am a certified coach who is here to help you sort through your struggles, make a plan, and live forward with grace. I will never push my personal beliefs or truths onto you. I will lovingly hold your hand while you find your own. My highly intuitive nature knows how to cater my loving guidance and teachings specifically to you and your personality and beliefs.
Many people do not want to chat over Zoom and in person support groups can leave many feeling more drained and tired. Email is a wonderful, cozy, quiet place to lay down your thoughts and be connected to someone who cares. We carry our phones with us everywhere we go which means you can write to me from anywhere: home, work, out on a walk….anywhere and anytime you need to. If you don't like typing...you can use voice-to-text from your phone, laptop, iPad/Kindle.
I am both: professional and human being who has experienced life’s grief. And this truly matters because it means we can connect at a heart level. I learned this from a prior pastor who taught me how to support grieving hearts. He learned through many decades (and personal experience with grief) that people truly need a counselor who they know has walked a similar grief road and has the tools to help others through. Without both we can feel alone and separated.
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Reviews of my work & writing:
“Cannot thank you enough, Nik...you are my new lifeline in a time when I find myself doubting my strength to carry the load.... it just becomes so exhausting, in a way I never knew existed."
"Nik, You are an inspiration, a breath of whispered truth, a broken person trying to heal, yet you still have the strength to want to reach out and help others, you are a credit to yourself, your family, and all your friends. I take my hat off to you. Bless you through and through."
"Dear Nik,
When the darkness consumed me, I couldn’t understand why. I prayed to God for help. I prayed for him to send help. He didn’t - except that you appeared in my FB newsfeed. To this day, I cannot tell you how. You brought me back to what I knew - nature heals, writing heals. Nothing else was helping.
Then you experienced a return to your faith, my faith I thought had failed me. I was angry. I stopped getting on FB, but I never stopped hearing your words resounding in the quiet corners of my mind. Slowly, almost against my will, I returned to your posts and faith has begun to creep back into my heart. I am a work in progress, a soul still fighting a darkness I don’t understand, but you have given me hope."
"I am a very loving person. But your writing challenges me on a new level. Wow! I adore you!!"
"Nik, I thank you for your passion and love. Your ability to share your personal experiences to me to my friends and family. You’ve uplifted me when I needed it the most. You have been my example of . You’re example of Christ like love, shows through your writing.... thank you FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART!"
"Hello Nicole,
Certainly we don’t know one another, yet I feel like I know you.
I admire the strength and courage you put forth in every word that you write. I admire the dedication and effort you put forth to help others. I admire the conviction you exhibit toward your cause... helping others.
You are truly a gift. Thank you for putting yourself out there as a beacon of light... of hope... of strength... to others. People that you will never know and faces that you will never see are being helped every day by your words.
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
Sending love and great big hugs from Buffalo, NY."
"What you're doing is really so wonderful and helping so many hurting people."
"You truly are so awesome. I'm so glad I stumble upon your profile. You have helped me so much in these past few months of grieving."
"I want you to know that I am beyond grateful for meeting you even if just in cyberspace as your positive attitude and your light shine so brightly."
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Email me if interested in details of my "Heal through Writing" Pen Pal program: [email protected]
At a time when prices are rising everywhere….I have significantly lowered mine so that more people have access to the help, compassion, and support they need and deserve.
$50/month for daily email correspondence.
*ask about discount if you sign up for November & December.
*No one will be turned away if you cannot afford to pay. Write to me and we will work something out.
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Remember, there is a beautiful light inside of you that can never be bent, bruised, or shattered.
YOU ARE LOVED.
Love always, Nik Bonkoski
-Writer, Grief Support Specialist, Spiritual Mentor
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https://www.nikbonkoski.com/grief
my email: [email protected]
THANK YOU FOR SHARING.
