11/17/2025
Photographing surprise proposals is honestly one of the wildest jobs because you truly never know what you’re walking into… but you better not be the one to blow the guy’s cover 😅
So here I am at Filoli Gardens, fully committed to my role as:
“Asian tourist with a professional-grade camera who definitely loves flowers… and maybe macro photos of bugs.”
(just kidding… kind of)
I told him, “Meet at this exact spot. I’ll blend in. You just follow the script.”
They walk up, and I think it’s them, but you never want to accidentally approach the wrong couple and ruin someone else’s peaceful garden stroll. So I stick to the plan.
He asks me, “Hey, can you take a photo of us on my phone?”
I tell them, “Wow, it’s your lucky day! I’m actually an amateur photographer building my portfolio. After I get this shot on your phone, mind if I take a couple on my camera? I promise I’ll send them to you as a gift.”
So there I am, photographing them on this thing called an iPhone, which apparently is better than all the big ‘professional D-bag cameras’ Canon and Sony make (according to the internet).
But then… I pull out my Canon D-bag camera with the long 70-200mm, just to let them know I’m serious about this “portfolio” of mine — and that I’ve retired from photographing birds in national parks.
That’s his cue.
He takes a breath… gets down on one knee… and starts reciting something he memorized. She instantly brings her hands up to her face — that moment when everything finally clicks and her whole heart drops in the best way.
From behind the lens, I can’t help but smile.
These are the moments we chase — the real ones, the fleeting ones, the ones you only get once. There are no re-dos in proposals. When it happens, you get it or you don’t. And you better believe I got it.
And yes… she said YES.
And yes… she looks absolutely radiant being newly engaged.
But wait — it gets better.
They invited me to their engagement party afterward, where he had a whole surprise waiting: a trail of roses leading from the door all the way to the celebration with their closest friends. Like — tell me chivalry is dead. It’s not. At all.
Ladies… don’t settle.
There are men out there planning entire experiences like this because you are worth it — worth the effort, the intention, the nerves, the flowers, the planning, all of it.
What a blessing to witness moments like these. 💍✨