08/23/2025
For the couple who feels stuck in their wedding planning…
I see you.
I’ve been there.
When Wendy and I were planning our wedding, there were moments we felt overwhelmed, unsure of what to do next, and afraid of getting it wrong.
It’s a lot to carry — trying to honor your families, your traditions, your vision for the day, and still find space to just be present with each other.
And then the day arrives.
The quiet before a first look.
The tears in a parent’s eyes.
The warmth of traditions passed down through generations.
The joy of a first dance that feels like the world has disappeared.
These moments remind me: weddings are not about perfection.
They’re about presence.
About slowing down enough to feel the weight of your father’s hand on your shoulder.
The look in your partner’s eyes when they see you for the first time.
The laughter, the joy, the love that fills the room.
I share this because I know how easy it is to get lost in the planning, in the stress, in the “what ifs.”
But when you pause, when you breathe, when you choose presence over perfection — that’s where the magic is.
Your story deserves to be remembered in a way that feels true to you.
Not staged, not forced. Just honest, timeless, and full of heart.
Because at the end of it all… it’s about connection.
The connection you share with each other, your families, your community — and the trust you place in the people invited to witness it.
And I don’t take that trust lightly.
“Your story, beautifully told.”