06/12/2022
Youβve found the perfect gown, but itβs not the perfect fitβ¦ so, now what? For most brides, the alterations process is uncharted territory. If youβve never had even a simple garment tailored, a wedding gown can be down right daunting! Here are 5 things to keep in mind when it comes to altering that special dress.
1. Buy the size you need, not the size you want
Wedding dresses run small. Itβs unfortunate, but itβs true, and we allhate it. If the other dresses in your closet are a size 6, your wedding gown will most likely be an 8 or a 10. I gotta tell you, 90% of brides say βIβm planning to lose weight before the wedding,β and some of them hope that a smaller dress size will motivate them to do it. That can definitely happen, but if those pounds donβt come off, a bride can find herself stuck with a dream dress that canβt be altered to fit. Seam allowances vary between designers, but 9 times out of 10 it is easier to take in than let out. Donβt get hung up on the number. No one will see the tag inside except for you. A dress that slides effortlessly over your curves is always more flattering than one that buckles because itβs too tight. The other extreme isnβt ideal either. It can be difficult and expensive to take a dress down more than 2 sizes. I have altered a dress from a 12 to a 2, but I do not recommend that. Aim to purchase a dress as close to your true size as you can get, and if you are worried about the alterations, check with a seamstress before you buy.
2. Find a reputable seamstress that you trust
Take your dress to a seamstress who specializes in bridal alterations. Just because someone knows how to use a sewing machine does not mean that they are equipped to alter a wedding gown. Bridal wear is complex and requires specific techniquesβnot only in the actual sewing, but in the initial fitting as well. A good seamstress should be able to look at your gown and come up with multiple possibilities for fixing a fit issueβ¦and sometimes itβs not what you expect. Just like styles change, garment construction evolves and our techniques have to keep up! Todayβs wedding gowns are made differently than dresses from 50, 40, 30, and even 20 years ago. It is important to find a seamstress who adapts to change and will alter a garment using the same techniques that the designer/manufacturer employed when they put it together. The goal is for your gown to look the same or better after alterations than it did before. This sounds like common sense, but I have seen some pretty appalling shortcuts. This week alone I have fixed 3 dresses that were either altered poorly or completely incorrectly, and the lesson is pretty clichΓ©ββyou get what you pay for.β Wedding gown alterations are not cheap. They take a tremendous amount of time and skill. If you find a seamstress whose prices are drastically lower than other alteration specialists in your area, chances are that the quality of their work will reflect that.
3. Donβt wait until the last minute
Sometimes it canβt be avoidedβ you accidentally lost 10 pound; you found out that youβre pregnant- these things happen (frequently!), but itβs best to be prepared and not let time just get away from you. The longer you wait, the harder it will be to find a seamstress who has time to work on your dress, and the harder it will be to even secure an appointment that works with your schedule. Evening and weekend appointments are always the first to book up (if they are even available to begin with!) and some places charge a βrush feeβ for last minute alterations. It can literally pay to plan ahead, and it also takes the stress off of everyone!
4. Bring your shoes and undergarments to all of your fittings
Alterations are very precise, and I donβt know about you, but I want your dress to be as close to perfect as possible. Anything that will affect the way the dress fits you (bra, slip, Spanx, heels) should be worn with the dress at the first fitting and when you pick it up. I know it doesnβt seem like changing your bra or going down an inch on your heel height will matter, but it absolutely does! You donβt want any unpleasant surprises when you put your dress on at the wedding!
5. Donβt scrimp on your alterations (and get a bustle!)
I know, I know, the dress was expensive. Maybe you didnβt budget for alterations, so you figure youβll just wear a really padded bra to fill in the top and deal with the hem being a few inches too long. Donβt do it! Remember that you (and your children, and your grandchildren) will be looking at pictures of you in this gown forever. While your dress will probably never look zero-wrinkle-airbrushed-quality flawless, you do want it to fit properly. You donβt want to trip over your skirt when you walk down the aisleβ¦ although that would be memorable! That train is going to be really annoying (and dirty) if you donβt have a way to pull it up at the receptionβ and no thatβs not what the hanger ribbon under a skirt is for. There are many different ways to bustle a wedding gown and every seamstress does it differently. On a full skirt, traditional utilitarian (1-3 point) bustles can sometimes look haphazard and uneven. The best bustle is the one that will make your dress look just as beautiful with the train pulled up as it did when the train was down, and this takes a special eye and some creativity!