
06/21/2025
A rare two-fer weekend brings us another “Things I Love” musing….
I will tell you that I had a VERY hard time choosing just one thing about this particular wedding. Pondering during the absolutely gorgeous drive there, I thought maybe that was it - the bits and pieces of Wisconsin I get to see because of weddings - but I felt there was something more.
Then today it hit me…when there are several sets of parents, sometimes things can feel a little…uncomfortable. Tension is high in these important moments for a family of just two parents; then we add the layers of stepparents and new siblings, and if there’s added tension, boy…that sure can put extra stress on the couple.
Being a mom and a stepmom myself, I’m no stranger to these layers of feelings that sometimes don’t even make logical sense. We know we want what’s best for our kids but it can be difficult to put our own feelings aside and do just that.
Today was an absolutely beautiful example of just that. After the bride and groom exchanged rings and made their promises to each other, I talked about how lucky they were to have their support system there, despite the differences they may have.
Then I asked their friends and family to vow to continue supporting, guiding, and loving them from here on out, and every single one of them responded “We Will”.
Getting your guests involved by providing them an opportunity to support you right then and there is always on the table, blended family or not. Would you consider this for your own wedding?
Thank you for the honor, Lindsay and Riley! Congratulations and best wishes to you both! 💕