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You actually DO like each other.....date nights help you remember why! Follow along to learn how to keep dating your spouse even after, "I do"

09/01/2024

September dates are some of my favorites!

Starred dates ** explained more below ⬇️ (just some added ideas!!)

📚 Bookstore date: browse your local bookstore and play a game called page count: truth or dare. What you will do is pick up a book and before opening it, you both will guess how many pages the book has. Person closest to the correct number without going over gets to choose a truth or dare for the other person.

⛺️Blanket fort + connection: questions comin’ at ya!
1. What is one thing that you are looking forward to in the next month?
2. What is your guilty pleasure TV show?
3. What is the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?
4. When did you first fall in love with me?
5. What song reminds you of me?
6. What stresses are you facing right now?
7. What is something you dream of owning?
work
8. What was the best part of our proposal?
9. Is there a smell that instantly relaxes you?
10. Do you think our love has grown over the years?

🎲 Roll a strip tease
For this bedroom date you’ll need a pen, 1 die, and the free printable that I will send to you! If this date sounds like one you need this month just comment “date” down below and I’ll send it right over 😀

And as always, happy dating this month!

08/15/2024

The no. 2 answer I get when I ask, “what holds you back from having more date nights?”

“We’re too tired” 🥱

I’d bet you do most of these things when you’re tired anyway…so just tweak it a little and do these things with a little intention behind them. Do them together. Be present. It doesn’t take a lot to make low energy dates feel connecting.

And if you need some questions to help get you in the right mood start with these:

1. What is something that you often stress out that you feel shouldn’t?
2. What is something you wish you could do more of and why?
3. What would you say we are most different in and why does that bring strength to our marriage?
4. What is a toy you played with in your childhood?
5. What were some of your favorite phrases to say back in high school that kids today wouldn’t say?
6. What year of marriage has been our hardest yet and how did we grow?
7. If you could get on a plane, where would you go?
8. Do you ever wish we lived somewhere else? Where would it be?
9. What do I do that makes your day a little easier?
10. What’s your favorite way to be greeted when you come home?

Don’t forget to save this to come back to later!

02/14/2024

Have you asked the big question yet??

The..will you be my Valentine question . I know, so cheesy! Here are some of my favorite ways to ask…maybe you’ll like them too?
Share your favorite and tag me!!

Happy ❤️ Day!!!!

02/01/2024

When you think of Valentine’s Day

What is the first word that comes to mind? Type that word in the comments!

Don’t miss the tour of shop going on later today and see if your word is used in our Valentine scavenger hunt!!

01/30/2024

How much did you love this book?!!!

I’m a sucker for a good rom-com!

I’m also a weirdo and write down all the quotes I love - pretty much all of chapter 32 is saved in my notes 😅 but here are the highlights.

From the list, which rule is your favorite?

01/12/2024

You’ve felt it before

You’re so stressed and tired and being pulled from every direction. How can you possibly even fit in a date tonight or even muster up the energy to go? You go. You come back to your stressed out environment, but you notice you’re not that stressed anymore. In fact, you feel a bit calm and happy. What happened?

Connection happened. Date nights with your spouse is not about the activity you go and do - it’s about connecting. That feeling of being seen, cared for, listened to, loved. The feeling of being his wife and putting off mom mode for a bit. This feeling of connection lasts way longer than just for the morning after.

Have you noticed after a date with your person you feel more attracted to them??

Are you more likely to make them breakfast or bring them coffee when you feel connected?

Do you find yourself smiling more just because?

Maybe you notice there is less friction between the two of you and when touchy subjects come up you are better at understanding and listening to one another?

These are just a few of the things I’ve noticed when we have given time for connection. What about you? What do you notice after you’ve had a really great time together??

01/11/2024

These are called the roll-over date nights. It’s similar to the to-do list items that don’t get crossed off and keep making the list the next day and the next 😂

Here’s to 2024 and hopefully getting to cross some of these off!!

never have we been to a drive-in movie - but it just seems like a more romantic way to watch a movie 🎥

is the date I know for sure Cameron will be all for!

I’ve heard this experience is better with a group so…who’s been and who wants to go with us?!!!

opened just this month - Jan. 2024!! And looks like a blast! This is probably the date I need to push me a little out of my comfort zone.

I want to hear a date you’re looking forward to going on in 2024, put it in the comments 👏👏👏

12/16/2023

This happens every time I head to a wedding.

I start reflecting on my own wedding. The advice we got then, the learning and growing we’ve done in between, to what advice would I give now??

What advice would you give? Did you receive any from the beginning that really stuck? Or did you find through experience your own advice that you wish you would have gotten??

I have to writing SOMETHING in their guest book…but I think I have it. The advice I would give now is…

12/05/2023

We need your help!

We MUST know the best white elephant gift you’ve ever given or received!!

We are hosting our first white elephant 🐘 party this week and don’t want to disappoint

Add your favorite ideas in the comments and I’ll put together a list to share

12/01/2023

A surprise date, but make it Christmas

-matching pajamas with your favorite Christmas movie

-wrapping gifts under the tree with conversation cards

-tickets to a show or game

-a new dress to wear at a holiday party or nice restaurant

-Starbucks drive-thru with a drive to see all the lights to follow

What else?? If your spouse surprised you with a date, what would you want it to be??

11/09/2023

A first for us!

Before yesterday, we had never been to a chiropractor before but it’s something we’ve been curious about - so, we made a date out of it!

could not have made this experience any better! She was just the person we needed to go to for our first jump into chiropractic alignment.

We learned so much! ( call me out on things I misinterpreted) Some things that stuck with us:

1. Our nervous system is connected to all things in our bodies - even things like our gut! Getting aligned can help with that!

2. Our bodies are a pressure system - the pop you hear is the release of pressure - it will keep building, thus also needs to be released

3. Opening your chest will help your posture!

4. The power of a chin tuck! Ears, shoulders and elbows?? Should make a line… I think it’s elbows. Nope maybes it’s knees? Just tuck that chin back

Don’t think your relationship is done with “firsts”!! If you do have something you both want to try - make a date out of it!!

Comment if you’ve been to a chiropractor before. What is something you have learned from taking care of your body in this healthcare realm?

11/05/2023

Okay….

Joe’s voice or Nick’s???

Or Kevin’s?? If you’re like me and didn’t know he didn’t participate in the vocals 😂

P.S. this is your reminder to do something that you LOVE and invite people to join you! I am obsessed with music *cough* and boy bands (it’s the 90’s child in me). It took me 11 months to get to a concert this year and it was 🔥 🤩!!!
You need these moments and you don’t need to have a reason other than it lights you up!

10/23/2023

The Haunt

Come explore this unique maze with us for a fun Halloween date night! You will work together with your date, but will be with a new group of friends!

Tickets are $30 a couple

Comment 👻 below for more details

10/19/2023

We’re hitting the town!!!

Tourist in our home town date. This is a date that’s been on our list for months and we’re finally doing it! It’s one of those dates that is helping us knock out all those times we’ve said, “we should go in that shop someday!”

Well, today’s the day we go discover the city we’ve been living in for over 4 years 🤪

We want to know 👇🏼👇🏼👇🏼

Where do you live?

AND

If you were a tour guide for the city you live in, where would you take the tourist?

09/25/2023

Zoom in if you need to because we need you to choose a winner!

Who’s outfit is better??

The rule for this date was easy enough:
Put together as much of an outfit as you can for your partner with $25 in 25 minutes

We were going to head to the DI, but weren’t going to make it in there before they closed so we went to the next best thing,

We checked out separately then revealed each other’s date night outfits in the truck. Got changed, then hit the arcade!

We needed something silly and different for date night - life was getting WAY too serious. The looks we got made it that much better! We asked so many strangers to rate our outfits and pick a winner…they said my outfit was better…but I say more people need to notice the socks on Cameron!

What do you say?? Who wins the better fit for you?

08/12/2023

Don’t let your date nights get stale! You don’t want to avoid date night because you get into routine of doing the same thing - add in a few different types of dates.

1. Easy, low chill date. No dressing up - get comfy and put on a good show

2. Do a project together - a house project, cook a meal, bake cookies for a neighbor, etc

3. Plan a date, fully!, without letting the other know what it is. Let go of control (if that’s you) and let it happen 😆

4. Think paintball, mud run, zip line, go karts, something to get that heart rate up

5. It’s likely that you and your partner have different passions. Take a date and teach one another about your passions and hobbies

6. Having new experiences together will not only bring connection, but also you will learn more about your partner in a new environment and light

7. I’m only competitive when it comes to going head to head with my husband 😂 there’s just something about trash talking that makes it even more fun. Try bowling, mini golf, bake off, a game of horse

8. More people = more fun. I love groups dates just for the conversations that get brought up! It’s so fun laughing with other couples

9. Have you ever recreated your first date??

10. Every once in awhile do the fancy smanchy thing. Dress up and hit the town!

How many of these have you already done? Which one will you choose next? I have my heart set on number 7 😝

08/10/2023

Building and maintaining friendship within a marriage is crucial for long-term happiness and relationship satisfaction. Here are 5 easy ways you can build your friendship:

5. Communication. Effective communication is the foundation of any strong friendship. Make time to talk about both the big and small aspects of your lives. Listen, actively and empathetically to each others thoughts, feelings, and concerns.

4. Openness and vulnerability: share your thoughts, dreams, fears, and vulnerabilities with each other. Creating a safe space where you can express your true selves fosters deeper emotional intimacy.

3. Appreciation and gratitude: regularly expressed appreciation for each others efforts and qualities. Acknowledging each others contributions helps build a sense of mutual respect.

2. Support each other’s goals: encourage and support each others, personal and professional goals. Be each others, cheerleader, celebrating achievements, and offering guidance during challenges.

1. Surprises and gestures: small surprises, thoughtful, gestures, and acts of kindness can go along way and showing that you care and are thinking about each other.

Remember, building a strong friendship within a marriage takes ongoing effort and commitment from both partners. But it only takes one of you cultivate the change you want to see within your marriage.

coming from a friend perspective which of these five could you use most right now?

07/25/2023

Any wedding anniversary’s being celebrated this month?!! 🤚🤚🤚

I read somewhere that couples stop celebrating their anniversary after 10 years - WHAT!! Why?

Celebrating your love, your friendship and the life you have created with your spouse is something that shouldn’t stop, in my opinion.

How would you rather celebrate your anniversary: a romantic getaway or a romantic gift?!

07/10/2023

When we bought our camp trailer in May, Cameron was gung-ho and decided that we needed to make at LEAST 20 camping trips this summer…..
Here’s us on our 3/20 trip with the summer half way over 😆

Camping spot: Fairview Canyon Lakes
Menu highlights this time: beef dog kit and ham fried rice on the Blackstone!

Are you a fan of camping? What is your signature camping snack or meal?? We have 17 more trips to make, so we need options 😜

07/06/2023

In our element:

Shoes off
Rocker camp chairs (Cameron will sell pitch you on these if you don’t have them 😆)
Sunset vibes
Kids somewhere else 😆 JK - kind of

Summer is the best season!!! I love staying busy - I’m a crazy one.

What have you been up to this summer? Share a highlight in the comments

06/25/2023

He tells me: “It’s still weird to think we are 12 years into our marriage, have 3 kids, go on family vacations now AND still kind of like each other…”

And I agree . It is wild! And I wouldn’t want to do this wild life with anyone else, but next vacation is all ours baby! We earned it 😅

Why does nobody talk about how hard it is to actually pull off a family vacation? I almost lost my vision just from exhaustion 🤣🤣

Where was your last family vacation?? And if you have a road trip tip for me that I need to know for next time, please type one in the comments!!

06/17/2023

Stop asking “how was your day?”

Start asking these instead:

•How are you doing right now?

•What’s been on your mind lately?

•What’s feeling good and what’s feeling hard?

• The last time we talked, you were dealing with (problem), how is that going?

•What was the highlight of your day? What was a low point?

Turn small talk into real talk 🙂. What other ways do you like to connect with your spouse at the end of the day?? Have you tried any of these questions?

06/05/2023

Fun dates. Deep conversation. Stronger love.

Let’s break that down

Fun dates! Every relationship needs a fun date, but maybe you don’t have time to plan one. This date is already planned and prep for you to show up and have FUN!

Deep conversations. I want you to talk with your spouse. Not about the week ahead or what to add to the grocery list…like really talk and have new, engaging conversations. Every date comes with a new deck of conversation cards to help get that going.

Stronger love. When you spend quality time with your spouse, you remember why you got together in the first place, how great you are together and, with these dates, you’ll feel closer and connected.

June’s date is sure to bring you all that and *fingers crossed* MORE!

What questions do you have about June’s date crate?

06/02/2023

No excuses for this mini date - it’s so easy to play and requires little effort! Just ask away and answer the first thing that comes to mind!

Here are more questions to keep the fun going

-what is your most useless talent?
-where is your favorite spot to see the sunset?
-long drives or at home dates?
-what impresses you?
-what annoys you?
-do hugs make you feel safe and at home?
-favorite show to binge watch together?
-what personality trait attracts you the most?
-do you have a scent that turns you on?
-what should we do for our anniversary this year?

Be sure to save this mini date for later! 🖤

05/16/2023

What date do you want be sure to get in this summer??

We have:

on the top of our list! I was so pregnant last year and never got to it, but now it’s time.

cosmic archery! Black lights with bows and arrows - it sounds so fun and one the guys would love!

we already missed Hairspray 🙁 so what’s the next best? For those of you who’ve been there.

always on the summer date night list!!

I just want to go for the music! But battle of the bands just sounds like a night to remember!

What date would you add??

05/13/2023

Hi there! 👋 we are Cameron and Jamee and we love date night …. Okay actually, one of us really loves date night and the other just goes because they’re told to (bet you can’t guess who’s who? 😜)

How about these other ones? Can you guess who’s answer belongs to who?

Biggest spouse pet-peeve
- leaving cords tangled
- snoring

Can’t live without
- mountains
- music

How we love to annoy the other
- loud clapping
- wearing their sunglasses

One of us…
- always sets the parking break
- leaves their plate on the table

Times we avoid each other
- 1 hour of waking
- depends on their eating schedule

Do not touch my
- charger
- pillow

Never
- start a new episode without me
- eat Mexican without me

One of us
- can’t keep a surprise or secret to save their life
- loves to surprise their spouse

Ideal date
- movie at home and cuddle on the couch
- summer concert

One of us answered first and the other second…which answers belong to who? Do we have anything in common with you?

04/28/2023

I can’t find the person who said this, but I’ll gladly quote it!

How do you feel about “time being the currency of relationships”? Do you agree?

04/03/2023

Say you’re in??

Another month of 2023 is here!! This is the month you are going to stop letting other things get in the way of making quality time happen with your best friend, other half, and lover!

This is the month you are going to commit to adding 1 date night into your calendar- go ahead, mark it down!

Then, answer the question (on the last slide) with the emoji that best fits!

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Honestly, I knew during our road trip to CA my kids would be asking for treats every stop we took. Which means I would be saying “no” 1 billion times. The change jar that’s been sitting on the shelf for the past year was full and I thought, “what if they could be in charge of their own snack buying? If they run out of money, at least it will prolong me from saying the word “no”on repeat.And, it worked! Way better than I expected it to. I don’t think it was life-changing, but I did hear my son say “umm, maybe I should get one treat instead of two.” And they did it all. They checked out at the cash registers, learned how money exchange works, and learned how to count their own money along the way All I know is, I didn’t have to say no a billion times and I think it might’ve planted the seed of money management in my children 😁So that’s a win!! Would you try this? Do you already have a change jar that you use for vacations?

We’re happy together but, We’re also sad together Feeling sad together is not a negative thing! In fact, it’s very much something that strengthens your relationship. I love laughing with my husband, but the moments I sit with my husband and there are really no words exchanged, but I feel his presence - i can feel him feel sad because I’m sad - those moments are the moments I remember most. I’m so grateful for the marriage we’ve created that accepts and seeks to understand “negative” emotion. There’s really not much negative about it when your hearts learn to connect without having to say a word. Double click if you too feel so grateful for the marriage you have ❤️❤️

Q: “How do me and my spouse get back on the same team?” A: listen to hear this awesome answer and insight from @raisingdorseygirls Who tuned-in for this live a couple weeks ago? 🖐 it was SO good!! Here’s a just a little preview for you to enjoy! Go back and watch the whole live posted in my feed to hear more ☺️

Q: “Let’s say I don’t want to give up date nights in my budget. How do I go about this when sticking to or starting a budget?” A: Hear how @know.money.mama answered this question for me! The whole live was amazing, but this part right here was GOLD!! Catch the whole live in my feed to get even more golden nuggets of wisdom!

Find someone who will drop everything to feed you a brownie! VC to @theaveragedaters for catching Cameron earn literal brownie points 😜 But! Serious question - team are you on? Team frosting on brownies? Team nuts? Team OG is best?