22/02/2022
I saw this posted in a bo***ir group and I wanted to share it here because I feel the same way!
Bo***ir to me isn’t so much about being sexual as it is about being intimate. If intimacy is something sexual to you and you want to feel sexy or sexualize yourself, by all means, that is beyond ok. Most people do. But to me, intimacy can take so many different forms. Not every one is sexual, but everyone has a side to them that they don’t share this everyone. It can be a person in a comfortable hoodie and leggings jamming to music in their room, or putting on/taking off their makeup before or after a long day, or just being cause they put it on and decided they didn’t like the way it made them feel so they washed it off. The most important part of bo***ir is not even the body, but the emotions you let yourself feel while you are in your most intimate of spaces. Your bedroom. Skin and sexuality has taken the forefront of the attention in bo***ir and I’m totally here for it, but I think people overlook a lot of the possibilities of bo***ir and sometimes get lost trying to “keep up with the Jones’”. There is so much more to a person than their sexuality, and so many ways to express yourself without it just being sexy!
