let's create magic through your love story
Allow us to tie up all of your loose ends! Allow us to tie up all of your loose ends.
I became a wedding coordinator because my mother missed everything at my first wedding because she was trying to be my everything (decorator, caterer, coordinator). I vowed I wouldn't let another miss that special moment in her daughter's life.....and Knot Your Average Events was born....
We love taking the time to listen to our couple’s love story and then designing their day to reflect them inc
luding their past, present, future and family traditions & culture. We love creating a lifetime of memories not just a once in a lifetime moment. That’s why we go beyond the aisle and offer romantic Caribbean adventures and experience for honeymoons and anniversaries too.
03/17/2025
St. Patrick’s Day boozy Shamrock Shake
Ingredients
6 cups vanilla ice cream
1/4 cup milk
1/4 cup Bailey’s Irish Creme
1/4 cup whipped or vanilla vodka
1/4 cup creme de menthe liqueur
2-3 drops green food coloring
Whipped cream for garnish
Maraschino cherries for garnish
Green colored sugar crystals
03/17/2025
🍀 Feelin’ Lucky & Ready to Celebrate! 🍀
Happy St. Patrick’s Day from Knot Your Average Events! Whether you're planning a wedding, corporate event, or a festive celebration, today’s the perfect reminder that a little luck and a lot of planning create unforgettable moments! 💚✨
May your tables be full, your dance floors lively, and your events as magical as a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow! 🌈🎉 Let’s start planning your next event—no four-leaf clover required!
💬 Drop a 🍀 in the comments if you’re celebrating today!
03/16/2025
We spent the morning donating flowers to a local children's play cast wrap party ...
Bravo
Take a bow
What did your vendors do with leftover decor from your event...
We just don't have the heart to throw the beautiful memories away....so instead we give them a second life...
We'll also donate a few to locals to bring smiles for the week.
03/16/2025
Sneak peek....
Did we mention we LOOOOOOVE when couples just trust us...
That's when the magic really happens ✨️
🏩 Murchison Farm
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💐 Design North Florist
Rentals Party Reflections
💡 DreamBuilder Productions .. more to come...
03/15/2025
💰💍 BUDGET-FRIENDLY OR JUST CHEAP? Let’s talk about it! 🎤⬇️
We keep seeing posts about budget-friendly, simple, elegant, and straight-up cheap weddings… but let’s be real: NO vendor wants to be called cheap & cheerful! 🚫💸
If you’re trying to save money, here’s how you can make it work without sacrificing the magic:
✨ Guest Count Matters! Keep it intimate—don’t invite 200 people! 🙅♀️🎟️
✨ Ditch the Fancy Dinnerware. Plastic plates over China/glass = big savings! 🍽️💡
✨ Cut the Bar. (Yes, it hurts, but your wallet will thank you! 🍹❌)
✨ Shorten the Day. Less time = fewer vendor hours = more $$ saved! ⏳💰
Think outside the ballroom!
🏞️ Public parks & restaurants that charge by the hour? YES! One of our couples is tying the knot at an arcade! 🎮🎉
📅 Off-days = BIG savings! Consider Monday-Thursday weddings. 🗓️✨
❄️🔥 Off-season steals! January, July, August = major deals. 💵💍
⛪ Church Weddings – Many only ask for a small donation & cleanup fee. 🙏💒
PS, as much as I LOVE THEM!! trust me, it's all about the details, but if you don't have the budget for it ... you don't HAVE TO HAVE= a photo booth, party favors, customized napkins/signs, programs, special effects... save that money for an event manager, a good dj, a professional photo/video team, and a legal Officiant
and
Remember, no alcohol. You don't have to have transportation either...
Think about what's MOST important to you!
What is your nonnegotiable 🤔
Let’s be real—a $15K wedding for 150 guests with a full bar, dinner, top DJ, and an experienced photo/video team isn’t happening. BUT you can have a simple, elegant day that’s all about YOU! ✨
This is why so many couples are:
💍 Eloping
💍 Choosing a destination wedding (avg. $15K for wedding + honeymoon!)
💍 Waiting 2 years & saving (avg. $36K for a dream wedding in NC)
💍 Creating unique, personal experiences instead!
No matter how you say "I do," make sure it's about YOU! 💕 The rest is just magic & memories. ✨
03/15/2025
Rehearsals are a great way to practice, see and experience...
They're also a great way for people to meet, get to know one another...
They're filled with love and laughter
03/14/2025
We love doing day of design with our partial planning clients focusing on design & logistics
Venue & lighting
Rentals
Flowers & decor
Let's take your vision to reality
03/14/2025
I specialize in the Caribbean...
In the past year... I attended the
Jamaica Love Tour
Love Mexico conference
Come for the Romance Bahamas conference
I'm an expert with the Bahamas, Jamaica, St Lucia and Antigua
Let's chat through options
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We know that everyone starts somewhere, and there will always be someone who charges less. But before you choose based on price alone, ask yourself: Are you comparing apples to apples?
I recently spoke with a potential client who mentioned we were $500 more than another planner she was considering. My response? Make sure you’re asking the right questions! Lower prices often mean fewer services, less experience, less staff, or a lack of proper preparation.
Here’s what you should ask any potential wedding coordinator:
✅ Is this their full-time career or a side hustle?
Do you want to be a priority or squeezed into an already busy schedule?
✅ Are they certified and educated in wedding planning?
Experience and training matter when handling high-stakes events.
✅ How many weddings/events have they coordinated?
A track record of success shows they can handle the unexpected.
✅ How many staff members will they have on-site?
A solid team ensures smooth setup, crowd management, and breakdown.
✅ Will they assist with setting up personal décor and vendor coordination?
Not all planners offer full-service setup—know what you're paying for.
✅ Will they stay all day or leave after cake cutting?
Some charge less because they leave early. But if something goes wrong after they’re gone, are they really saving you money?
✅ Are they insured?
Many venues require proof of insurance—make sure your planner has it!
✅ Are they CPR and First Aid certified?
Emergencies happen. Will they know what to do?
✅ Do they have experience handling weather issues?
If your wedding is outdoors or during hurricane season, experience is key!
The Truth: A professional planner doesn’t just cost money—they save you money. They’ll connect you with trusted vendors, negotiate better deals, and prevent costly mistakes. Not to mention, they’ll save you time and stress!
We know that some couples will choose a lower-cost option. But when you invest in a seasoned professional, you're getting more than just coordination—you’re getting peace of mind, expertise, and a flawless wedding day.
Choose wisely. Your wedding day deserves it.
03/13/2025
We are starting something new...
Test drive your honeymoon ✨️
Say what???
Absolutely wedding planning is A LOT
And definitely could be stressful if you don't have me doing your wedding just saying...
But even if you have everything planned and everything is going to set plan...
It's great to Take a break, A vacation, Breathe, Relax, reset And remember, why you're getting married in the first place...
It's great to have a break, that's not talking... Wedding every other word...
So we are super excited that one of our couples wanted to test drive their honeymoon...
They wanted to see what sandals was all about
Taste the food, check out things they could have their butler do while getting used to having said butler...
We planned a little fun so they could let loose and go swim w/ Some dolphins and then relax with a couple's massage..
Plus we set up an amazing engagement photo shoot at sunset (i can't wait to see those photos)
Marrying your life partner= It's all about creating experiences and memories that will last a lifetime... don't sweat the small stuff...
And definitely. Plan a getaway at some point during your wedding planning.
You won't regret it...
And we're here to help plan that too with our sister company
03/12/2025
An elopement is typically an intimate ceremony with just the couple (or a very small group, usually under 10 guests). It’s often planned in a shorter time frame—sometimes just weeks or even days in advance—and focuses solely on the couple’s vows and commitment without the traditional wedding elements like a reception, first dance, or large guest list. Elopements can take place anywhere, from a courthouse to a scenic destination.
An intimate wedding, on the other hand, still embraces a smaller guest count (typically 10-50 guests) but includes more traditional wedding elements like a ceremony, reception, and sometimes even a first dance, cake cutting, or toasts. These weddings often require more planning (several months to a year) and include a structured timeline while keeping things personal and meaningful.
Both options allow couples to celebrate in a way that feels right for them—whether it's a spontaneous, private moment or a small yet detailed gathering with loved ones!
03/11/2025
Who would love a FREE wedding venue in the Bahamas... and ya'll it's BEAUTIFUL!!! We toured this property in November and were invited to return to the LOVE Bahamas conference where they hosted a stunning dinner party for us! (see our photos)
Hope you win... hope you bring us with you!!!
03/09/2025
✨ Team Lunch & Goal Setting ✨
Today, our Knot Your Average Events lead team event managers gathered for a much-needed luncheon at The Cutting Board—fueling up on delicious food while setting our intentions for an amazing year ahead!
We reflected on our goals, planned for some incredible events, and celebrated what truly makes our team stand out—our communication and family dynamic. The way we support, inspire, and encourage one another outside of events makes every wedding and celebration feel like a family reunion every weekend!
Huge thanks to The Cutting Board for hosting us in one of their private dining rooms! If you're looking for a great event space, they have 3-4 private rooms—perfect for meetings, celebrations, and more.
✨ What we're looking forward to this year:
✅ Producing unforgettable weddings & events
✅ Strengthening our vendor partnerships
✅ Creating more seamless client experiences
✅ Continuing to grow as a team & a family
Cheers to an exciting year ahead!
03/09/2025
Don't forget...
03/07/2025
Being asked to speak at one of the largest and most well-known conferences for wedding & event professionals... still is a pinch me moment
Plus, I got to check out a nice hotel (Embassy Suites) and a FUN town ( Fort lauderdale)
Hopefully, this won't be the last...
And if you get the chance to go... Definitely go!
03/03/2025
Me and Cookie Monster planned some big surprises for today's birthday festivities
Cabana on the beach w/ butler service
Photo shoot at sunset
Cookie Monster Surprise Appearance
Private Candlelight dinner on the beach ...
How do you plan and celebrate your birthday 🎂??
Allow us to plan your next birthday celebration
03/02/2025
Today's festivities...
Beach cabana for the birthday celebration 🎂
Highly recommend this view for your next birthday...
03/02/2025
What are you receiving from your vendors. ..
Service vs. Hospitality: What’s the Difference?
1. Service is transactional. Hospitality is personal.
• Service is checking in a guest quickly. Hospitality is remembering their name and welcoming them like an old friend.
2. Service is following steps. Hospitality is anticipating needs.
• Service is delivering a meal on time. Hospitality is noticing a guest’s preference and suggesting their favorite dish before they even ask.
3. Service is reactive. Hospitality is proactive.
• Service is handling a complaint professionally. Hospitality is preventing the issue before it arises by understanding guest expectations.
4. Service is standardized. Hospitality is emotional.
• Service ensures a clean room. Hospitality ensures the guest feels at home by adding thoughtful personal touches.
5. Service is an expectation. Hospitality is what makes a brand unforgettable.
• Every hotel provides service, but hospitality is what guests remember—and why they return.
Why It Matters
Luxury hospitality isn’t just about speed and efficiency—it’s about making guests feel truly cared for. When hotels embed hospitality into their service standards, they create experiences that leave lasting emotional impressions.
This also goes for wedding & event professionals... there's a reason some cost more than others... because they aren't taking on double to provide their income, instead they take on less, focus on those few creating guest experiences and client relationships...
Are you just a number to them?
Do they check in on you or wait 2 weeks prior to your date...
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🎉🚪 When One Door Closes… Another EPIC Party Begins! 🎊🤯
Imagine thinking the waiting area was the party—only to have the doors open to a mind-blowing celebration they NEVER saw coming! 💥✨ That’s exactly what we did for one of our corporate clients, and here’s the kicker… their team is STILL talking about it 3 years later! 🗣️🎶
💼 When you invest in your employees, they invest back in you. Boost morale, increase productivity, and create a culture where everyone can’t wait for the next celebration! 🥂📈
Let us turn your next corporate event into an unforgettable experience—because your team deserves to be WOWed! 💙
📅 Ready to make it happen? Let’s plan a party they’ll never forget!
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👰✨ From "Yes!" to the Dress – NYC Style! 🗽💍
One of the coolest perks of planning a wedding for the owners of @kleinfeldbridal? The incredible relationship we built—and the fact that we can bring our brides straight to the heart of NYC for a one-of-a-kind bridal gown experience! 💫👗
Here's a peek at one of our recent trips where we took a lucky bride to say "YES" to her dream dress—and of course, we made it a whole adventure! 🥂🛍️💖
When you work with us, you’re not just getting a planner—you’re getting exclusive access, unforgettable experiences, and a whole lot of fun along the way! 🎉
📣 Ready to make YOUR bridal dreams come true? Let’s take on NYC together—because your love story deserves nothing but the best! 💕
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Here's a beautiful reception set up...
World be great for a rehearsal dinner, wedding dinner or even a corporate event saying thank you to your employees
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Dunn's River has several amazing options for I do...
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Say I do... over and over again
Vow Renewals: Celebrate Your Love, Your Way
Love is a journey, and every milestone deserves to be celebrated! Whether you’re marking 5, 10, 25, or even 50 years together, a vow renewal is the perfect way to reflect on your love story, reaffirm your commitment, and create new unforgettable memories.
Why Renew Your Vows?
❤️ Celebrate a Milestone – Anniversaries are special, and a vow renewal lets you honor the years of love, laughter, and challenges you’ve overcome together.
💍 A Second Chance at “I Do” – Maybe your original wedding wasn’t exactly what you envisioned—now is your chance to have the dream ceremony you’ve always wanted!
✈️ A Romantic Getaway – Escape to paradise with a stunning beachfront backdrop, warm ocean breezes, and the one you love by your side.
👨👩👧👦 Include Family & Friends – Many couples use vow renewals to celebrate with their children, grandchildren, or loved ones who couldn’t be there the first time.
💫 Just Because – Who says you need a reason? Your love deserves to be celebrated, no matter the occasion!
Say “I Still Do” in Paradise
Imagine renewing your vows on a white sandy beach, at a stunning overwater chapel, or in a lush tropical garden. With Sandals & Beaches Resorts, you can plan your dream vow renewal for as little as $400 down!
Let us take care of the details—from the ceremony setup to the romantic extras—so you can focus on celebrating your love in style.
Ready to start planning? Contact us today and let’s create a magical moment you’ll cherish forever! ❤️✨
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Imagine celebrating in paradise...or host a corporate retreat maybe even an awards banquet for a sales trip for your company
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We hosted several weddings in the Overwater Wedding Chapel.. and the team is fabulous to work with...
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How about a private garden in Grenada
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Just imagine how magical we could turn your vision into reality...
Come give us your dreams...
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Intimate elopements just got easier in paradise...
Did you know we could include a complimentary destination wedding ceremony... yes Free!
Certain days & times when coming down certain amount of days in a club or butler level category...
Lets chat
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Hmmmmm…who am I? I’ve been called the wedding whisper, coordinating ninja, a magician just to name a few of my nicknames but the reality is I’m just a down to Earth girl raised in a small town that has big dreams. Although they say “I clean up nicely” I’m most comfortable in a pair of holey jeans, a t-shirt and flip flops. I love planning local events but if you give me a few extra days off you can find me on the beach in the Caribbean somewhere. While I’m the proud momma of two adorable pups, it’s our 6lb office manager (aka Bailey) has stolen my heart. She will greet you at the door and climb up in your lap to take a nap during our consultations. We truly say you become family once your event becomes a part of our planning line up.
When it comes to our event designs, we think outside of the box. I personally prefer booking a venue that speaks our couples first looking at the elements that it offers and go from there. We love mixing textures and layers when it comes to linens (FYI, all white linens are for all white parties… if you are planning on wearing a “white” dress…you become a rental; shouldn’t you stand out?). Your centerpieces do not have to be flowers (although we love a beautiful floral design) but let’s get creative with layout and details). Let’s think outside of the box. Design, Entertainment and Food & Beverage is what sets the tone for your event. Linens and Lighting will set the mood, entertainment will keep your guests attention while you’re making your rounds and/or just enjoying being a guest… and the happiest guests have food and beverage options throughout the entire day…. Not just at meal time. Let’s create an experience not an event…
How do I create an experience? It’s through my nearly 20 years of events and education. I am one of 57 Master Wedding Planners in the World. I am partnered with Sandals so we assist with honeymoons, destination weddings, anniversary trips, and/or Caribbean getaways.
I can assist you in creating signature drinks because I’ve been a professional mixologist for nearly two decades and bartended from the coast to my hometown. I am multi-certified through the Association of Bridal Consultants, The Bridal Society, Beverly Clark Hospitality, and Sandals.
I have a degree in Recreation, Parks and Tourism and currently teaching Event Management & Planning at the University of North Carolina at Greensboro. I am now enrolled in the Grad program at UNCG to assist them in creating and developing a private event planning program and hopefully degree. I’ve taught multiple classes at the Alamance Community College.
We use our network through being members of the local chapter of the Alamance Chamber Association, executive board member of the Triad Bridal Society, NC state manager of the Association of Bridal Consultants, The North Carolina Wedding Society, being a member of Triad Weddings and a co-author of the Planners Unplugged book project to create the best line up of vendors to create the best line up of vendors not only locally but worldwide.
When I’m not mentoring, teaching or creating magic for our couples you can usually find me taking my mom to the movies, hanging out with my amazing boyfriend and grabbing lunch with a friend. I’m a true believer that you CAN have it all but you have to find a work-life-balance that fits your style and active lifestyle.
That’s one of the many reasons why we limit the number of couples and clients we take on per year. We love that our couples get to know us and that they feel they are still our one and only because in our eyes they are. We treat each of our couples as if it’s our BFF getting married and their moms become ours (we’ll call grandmas nanny & grandpas papa if that’s what they call them). We’ve been invited to lots of family reunions, celebrations and baby showers following their wedding day…because for us it’s not just “one day” it’s a lifetime of memories we help create. We love being that “Remember when” moment…so allow us to be THAT moment for you… we look forward to getting to know you and creating a special moment in time for you and your loved ones.