05/08/2024
Keys to surviving grad school and my thesis:
1. Supportive family (see previous posts)
2. Amazing advisors and professors (see previous post)
3. Full time childcare. A privilege we made sacrifices to accommodate.
4. Therapist. Seriously could not have have survived graduate school without. Graduate school uncovered new layers, perspectives, and a deeper understanding of myself which I was able to navigate with the support of my therapist who always held space for me in my lowest of lows, highest of highs, and everything else in between.
5. A community of friends. They have offered their unwavering support, cheerleading, an ear when I needed to talk, and their presence when I needed to just be. Thank you to one of my closest friends that I can also call family, Sarah, and my wonderful neighbors who turned into friends, Kim, Beth, Cate , and Jodi, who have encouraged, comforted, supported, commiserated, celebrated, and motivated me. Thank you to a special friend Felicity, who I only met because I decided to study at the Colonial Williamsburg Foundations John D. Rockefeller Jr. library. Her support was two-fold as a friend and as a rockstar researcher, librarian and archival assistant, and all-around knowledge repository whose help, support, and cheerleading were invaluable.
6. My neighbors, neighborhood, and Colonial Williamsburg. Thank you to my neighbors who allowed me into their homes and shared their stories with me. My thesis would not be possible without them. Thank you to the Colonial Williamsburg staff, past and present, who contributed to the history and historical narrative that has been the foundation of my study.
7. Coffee, wine, and meditation.
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