12/04/2022
A man is not born
He is matured
I know in my life I thought I was a man very early on. From about age 13, when I first started getting facial and p***c hair.
Then I thought I was a man at 14 when I had my first orgasm/ejaculation (back then I thought they were the same thing 😉)
Then I thought I was a man when I got my first kiss at 14.5
I thought I was a man at 16 when I had s*x for the first time.
I thought I was a man when I got my driver's license age 16.5
I thought I was a man when I got my first job at 16.5
I thought I was a man when I could go to the pub and drink beer (legally) 18.
I thought I was a man when I finished school. 18
I thought I was a man when I became an apprentice bricklayer 18.5
I thought I was a man when I became a tradesman at age 22.
I thought I was a man when I had a serious girlfriend at age 23.
I thought I was a man when I bought my first house at 23.
I thought I was a man when I won a football premiership at 24
I thought I was a man when I moved in with my girlfriend at age 24.
I thought I was a man when we bought a house together and turned it into a home at age 25.
I thought I was a man when I worked out in the mines and trained at the gym at 27.
I thought I was a man when I started travelling the world at 28.
I thought I was a man when I started to become "conscious" and practice yoga and meditate.
I thought I was a man when I started to move beyond my addictive traits
I thought I was a man when I started to do men's work.
And now there is something happening in my life that is showing me how wrong I was all those times.
Every time "I thought I was a man", life has happened and it has shown me otherwise. Life keeps giving me experiences for me to grow from. To learn and evolve and continue to be the best HUMAN I can be.
It has nothing to do with being a MAN or a WOMAN. I am a HUMAN and a SOUL first and foremost. I am continually letting go of any idea that I am something or someone that is restricted by someone else's belief that it has to be done a certain way, look a certain way or even feel a certain way.
This is life, and I'm here to experience it all and have a great time while doing it.
