09/03/2016
***********updated statement************
3M is a sober creative space that centers people of color, especially q***r poc and poc femmes. here, the presence, agency, and comfort of poc take priority over those of white people. as a bare minimum, whites (and in many ways, non-black poc) should listen more than they speak and carefully consider how much space they're taking up. white people, you are bystanders here. conduct yrselves as such.
whites and non-black poc, don't use the n-word or AAVE. keep yourself and each other in check instead of waiting for someone else to do it for you. if someone is making you feel uncomfortable or unsafe at 3M, please tell us and we will remove them from our space. the well-being of our attendees, especially those who are poc, is our highest priority. those who perpetuate oppression (racism, sexism, transmisogyny, etc.) at 3M will be held accountable and/or asked to leave.
additionally, respect our home. 3M is a sober space, so please don't bring alcohol or drugs to events. if there are circumstances regarding our sober policy and your mental or physical health, please talk to us and we'll accommodate you. we ask that everyone pitch in to keep our house clean (!), secure, and enjoyable.
in addition to handling issues ourselves, we–jasmin, kotone, and lucky–will also be relying on the participation of the community that gathers at 3M to make this place a good one. learn to support each other, call each other out and in, and find ways to be compassionate toward one another, even in small ways.
we’ve just begun and are always learning. poc, your ideas and input are always welcome. we hope to see y'all soon.
XOXOXO,
jasmin + kotone + lucky