The Couples Party

04/05/2024

Now we have two...

Meet our 2nd Meet & Greet host at out next gathering 🔥

Only the best of the best, we promise ✨️

The Couples Party 🥳

03/28/2024

Turn on please 🙏

01/15/2024

This is a male bathroom door at a art gallery 🎨❤️🤣

10/31/2023

10/17/2023

Exactly 💯 ♥️😆

10/16/2023

Can't Complain

10/09/2023

since we received negative feedback & had to delete/block from post below.

STD TESTING IS A MUST TO ATTEND OUR GATHERINGS

10/08/2023

we greatly appreciate 🙏 all the dm's asking to join our next gathering, but... we also appreciate if you didn't have a belly either. our guests look amazing, are amazing and don't accept anything but amazing.

thanks

09/25/2023

VIP N**e bathing 🌤 ⛱️ at a one of our gatherings pre-covid ❤️ and yes, we're working on starting our gatherings again 😀

09/15/2023

$ HOSTS WANTED $
married couples
single ladies
dm-4-info

09/07/2023

the way a woman looks at you when you rocked her World

06/29/2023

About last night... PUFF, PUFF, PASS! lol

05/28/2023

Meet us at the Treasure Island Drum Circle today ✨️

05/23/2023

Maturity looks amazing 🔥

05/08/2023

n**e sun bathing
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11/12/2022

Yes. We also like music.
Lifestyle Living doesn't mean we don't go to festivals 🎈and keep our clothes on 🍒

10/08/2022

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08/12/2022

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08/09/2022

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03/09/2021

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09/13/2020

one study of more than ten thousand sw***ers found that the vast majority reported that swinging made them happier with their relationships
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12/28/2019

Avoiding Single Men Sw***er Mistakes

It’s uber hard being a single man in the swinging world. As much as its an amazing experience, it is also a huge challenge that takes a good amount of time and effort. If you are having trouble as a single man in the swinging lifestyle, you are not alone. The good news is that much of the challenge a single man faces is from overcoming his own mistakes. We are here to help educate you so you can be the best darn single man in the lifestyle and be desired by all your s*xy local sw***ers. 🙂

Put real effort into your online profile. The supply of single men is higher than the demand so your swing game needs to be stronger. Don’t just be one of the guys in the lazy crowd. Post good pictures of yourself. Make sure they give a good & accurate representation of your current self. Write an appealing description that shares your personality and shows you are not just some desperate, h***y man.

Upgrade your photos. Too many single men ruin their chances by using horrible pictures. What are the right type of pictures? Make sure they are recent, in focus, & speak to your personality. Show off your s*xy eyes — don’t hide them behind sunglasses. Have a clean & attractive background. Don’t have a room filled with dirty clothes or bathroom stalls behind you when you are trying to convey s*xiness in your pictures. Communicate that you take privacy seriously by having only yourself in the picture. Skip group pictures or pictures with your ex-girlfriend. Give a good sense of your physical shape by showing your body and not hiding behind bulky clothes. If you don’t show your body, couples will fear you are too obese to last for a long s*xy play session. Or they’ll think you lack confidence, which is the opposite of s*xy. Make sure to share multiple pictures from different situations to show you aren’t a fake profile using a single stolen picture.

Read the entire profile TWICE before texting ONCE. Remember we don’t want to waste anyone’s time and we want to demonstrate you can be a really good teammate who can be trusted. So thoroughly read their profile. This way you can make sure you will be a good match for them and can introduce yourself with a much more attractive message by referring to the things they like in their profile.

Show respect to everyone including men. When you are emailing or texting with a couple, you are probably talking with the man most of the time. Make sure you are friendly & respectful to him. He is looking for a teammate, not competition. Remember that swinging is different from cuckolding so make sure you act accordingly. You want to use your best sw***er etiquette as a single man.
Work together. Don’t ask the wife or girlfriend to meet up separately. Assume they will arrive for the first meeting as a couple and leave as a couple. If they are open to solo dates, they will let the single man know. Couples will steer clear from any hint of drama or headaches. Single men need to remember they are only a bonus to the sw***er couple’s great relationship, they are not a replacement.
Be 100% authentic & honest. Swinging relies on trust. If you use fake photos or altered images, that will likely be noticed by experienced sw***ers and they will avoid you. Don’t pretend to be a couple and then try to meet up as a single man, it never results in s*xy time.

Own your s*xuality.Be honest about your straight or bis*xual preferences. Setting up false expectations with your s*xual preferences is a quick way to screw up any chance for s*xy fun.
Share your face pictures. Sw***ers are all about s*xy fun & that means there needs to be attraction. It is really hard to make an attractive connection if you don’t show your face. Remember the supply/demand is not in your favor so refusing to share face pics is a quick way to end up in the discard pile.
Show the right amount of confidence. This is a hard skill to master. Many single men display too little or too much confidence. You don’t want to be creepy or too clingy but you also don’t want to be an annoying prick with a horrible attitude. Be careful to act confident in yourself but not presumptuous or arrogant.
Improve your flirting game. Sending weak messages will deliver weak results. You want to be engaging & thoughtful. Simply sending a picture of your junk or saying “hi” & nothing else will just get you deleted or permanently blocked. Remind yourself that you need to convince both of them you are going to be a fun & s*xy addition to their already hot s*x life. Use interesting & engaging icebreakers like “What’s a better late night snack …pizza, burgers, or chocolate cake?”

Respect their busy schedule. Swinging couples have very busy lives. They are often busy with work, their family & each other. Don’t make it any harder on them by wasting the precious little free time they have in their schedule. Respond to them in a timely fashion and work around their busy schedule if you want the best chance for s*xy times to actually happen. Being reliable will help set you apart from the other single men.
Perfect your grooming. Make sure you take phenomenal care of yourself. Sw***ers are already having hot s*x with their partner so why would they lower their standards for you? Make sure your pictures communicate good hygiene & pride in taking care of yourself. Being dirty, grimy or smelly isn’t appealing to most people. If you are too lazy to have regular haircuts & nail trimmings, then you are also very likely too lazy to schedule your STI tests. Always work hard at making great impressions with everything you do.
Take s*xual health seriously. Refusing to share STI results or to wear condoms are easy deal breakers. Don’t even try to claim the condoms won’t fit you. They make a wide variety of condoms so all sizes are covered. Why would a couple take a risk having s*x with a partner that doesn’t have recent STI results? Show you are smart & responsible by taking s*xual health seriously for you & your partners.

12/28/2019

Rules of the Sw***er Lifestyle

As with anything in life, knowing the rules will help you be more successful as a sw***er in this s*xy lifestyle. Rules provide sw***ers a helpful structure and a clear pathway around those troublesome landmines. Lifestyle rules make it easier on you, your relationship, and the sw***er community.
First, let’s chat about the common swinging community rules. These are the rules you will encounter throughout the many different sw***er clubs, resorts and house parties. Of course, each venue is different and has its own set of rules or variations on these common rules, so make sure to check beforehand to avoid offending anyone. More importantly, make sure you and your partner are comfortable with the rules before diving in headfirst.

Always Ask

This simple rule reminds all sw***ers that just because we are attending a s*x party, we should still ask for permission before touching or playing. If someone says “no thanks” to you, you should not ask again during that event. Don’t be surprised if someone says “no thanks”. There are countless reasons someone might not want to play and many of them have nothing to do with you. A sw***er might not want to play because they don’t feel comfortable just yet, or aren’t attracted to you, or are too tired, or maybe they know they have had too much to drink. Don’t assume it’s okay and just start touching or interacting. That is a very quick way to be kicked out and blacklisted. Be polite and always ask first.

Anyone Can Say No

As we’ve said, it’s harder to make a connection when you’re swinging because you need everyone involved to be ready to play. For two couples to swing, all four people need to have the right connection and feel up to playing. The swinging community wants everyone to feel comfortable and safe, which is why everyone has the power to say “no” (preferably “no thanks”, because that sounds more polite).

Really Respectful

We’re all in this crazy swinging community for the same reason – to have a good time. Being rude or obnoxious is not welcome in this community. Make sure to always be polite and respect each other. We all look different and none of us are perfect supermodels; remember to respect others even if they don’t look like the s*x god or goddess of your dreams.
You should know that in general, others in the community will respect you in return. Most of us will find you s*xier than your ego even realizes. Sw***ers tend to be happier people, which is probably because we get to enjoy a lot more s*x than the vanilla world. Sexually-satisfied people tend to just be nicer to be around than the s*xually-frustrated meanies you can find in the vanilla world!

Crucially Confidential

You will learn things about other people in the swinging community, and others will learn things about you, as you spend more time together. All sw***ers are expected to respect other sw***ers and not share any personal or confidential information with others. Some sw***ers are publicly open about their swinging status, but most people in the lifestyle prefer not to share this part of their life with the vanilla world.
When in doubt, think about the “need to know” principle. Don’t share confidential information unless it’s on a real need-to-know basis. Most of the time, that is not the case. Protect any confidential information you might know, and expect other sw***ers to do the same!

12/26/2019

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