11/27/2015
Feel good pro-snake and pet reptile story! (Shared with us by Eric Roscoe of Madison Area H**petological Society.)
Child with autism transformed by friendship with snake and bearded dragon:
The reptiles have a calming effect on six-year-old Charlie Burnett.
The life of an autistic boy from Woking has been transformed after adopting a snake and other reptiles, but his parents are terrified of the creatures.
Six-year-old Charlie Burnett suffers from Pathological Demand Avoidance Syndrome (PDA), meaning the slightest setback or stress can throw him into "meltdown".
Now, however, with the help of pet corn snake Cameron, a lizard and a bearded dragon, he is much calmer, happier and finds day-to-day life more manageable.
His mother, Jaime Gridley, said Charlie finds the animals, and in particular the snake, therapeutic.
āItās changed Charlieās world,ā she told the Woking Advertiser. āI canāt tell you the difference itās made to our family. Weāve had hamsters in the past but they have done nothing. Heās not interested in them But now I know I can come home from work, take the snake out of the box and heāll be calm.ā
Because Charlie is high-functioning, he attends a mainstream school, which he finds "enormously stressful", according to Ms Gridley, a teacher herself.
āHis PDA means he thinks that if there are any demands place on him he will have a meltdown,ā she said. āPeople often donāt realise how challenging he finds it.ā
Asking Charlie how his day at school went used to be a painstaking process for his Ms Gridley and father Alex Burnett, but these days if they want to find out they only have to eves-drop on the conversations he will be having Cameron.
āItās phenomenal,ā said his mother. Itās something about he way snakes move. āItās very calming.ā
As well as its evident listening skills, the corn snake also helps Charlie to get to sleep.
Until last year the child could only sleep with his parents, waking almost every hour, but since the arrival of Cameron he has spent the midnight hours soundly asleep in his own bed, his new friend in its box nearby.
āThey say good morning and good night to each other,ā said Ms Gridley. "Theyāre proper friends.ā
Charlieās parentsā joy at his dramatic improvement have been tempered by their own fear at handling his new reptilian friends, however.
āIām not a snake lover, Iām petrified of them,ā admitted Ms Gridley, saying the same went for her partner.
āBut being fearful of them is outweighed by the benefit. We grin through the fear.ā
The improvement began last year when his parents invited Nick Forrest, from Pentangle-Aquatics pet shop in Knaphill , to bring some animals along for Charlieās birthday party.
Realising the boy showed an enthusiasm for reptiles, Mr Forrest, whom Ms Gridley describes as āan amazing personā, then spent hours discussing with Charlie which pet would be best for him.
āHeās a lovely boy and itās great to have the satisfaction of doing your job right,ā said Mr Forrest.
āSnakes are great animals. If you look after them correctly they will become very loyal, just like cats and dogs.ā
Mr Forrest, 38, said he had worked with other people with conditions such as autism and that, while he is āno scientistā, he believes there is something about snakes and lizards that focuses the brain and allows people to relax.
āWhen I first met Charlie he didnāt want any other friends at his party,ā he said.
āBut when I saw while doing some demos at childrenās parties this summer he was a completely different child.
āHe was talking to the other children, showing them how to look after the animals.
āHeās going from strength to strength.ā
Mr Forrest said he believes the current younger generation are less prone to be scared and are more open-minded about handling reptiles.
He predicted that Cameron would grow to be five or six feet long, but that if in the future Charlie wanted a ābigger challengeā, he could consider adopting a boa constrictor.
Article by Henry Bodkin and photo with Bearded dragon via www.getsurrey.co.uk/news/surrey-news/woking-child-autism-transformed-friendship-10503368