17/07/2020
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You are a beautiful woman who has been carefully designed and handcrafted by God. You are valuable to God. You are special and choosen by the very hands of God. Stop looking down on yourself. Stop thinking you are not good enough becuase at your age you are not married or have not achieved anything, that doesn't mean is the end, neither does it mean you were cursed.
Being single is not a punishment neither a curse. Stop listening to people telling you that you are getting old. This is your time to discover yourself, create an invironment where you will allow God to work on you and use you for His kingdom. In that process He will prepare you and teach you to become that perfect spouse He called you to be.
There was a time in my life, I thought I was destined to be alone, no husband and no children. Until one day I got a revelation that I am destined for greatness, that being single is not a curse neither is what God has destined for me. I started taking care of me, took time to find me, sat down with me, interviewed me. I went deeper to research more about me. And I am glad I went through all that.
Yes in the process of discovering yourself, you will get hurt, you will make wrong decisions, you will meet different people. Some will make you happy, while some will hate you, some will pretend on you, some will want to break and hurt you, some will use you to have lunch and dinner with their friends and family. You will learn a lot, and you will only learn if you open yourself and allow yourself to learn.
In the journey of discovering yourself, you will sometimes hate yourself or hate somethings about yourself, you will make changes, re do things, go back and forward. Yes you will get tired and feel defeated, you will feel like quitting . You will feel useless, feel like the world is against you. Some days you will enjoy every moment of it, you will feel energized and look forward to more adventure.
You see discovering yourself is not easy, if only the diamond sitting beautiful and sparkling on that wedding ring could be able to talk, you will feel sorry for it. The process it went through to get where it is today was not easy. That is why it is expensive today. Just like your season of being single and discovering yourself it won't be an easy one, yet the results of it will be priceless, you will be admired, praised and wanted, favored loved and cherished by that one lucky partner who will never play games with you.
Enjoy being single and remember the journey has pains and joyful moments, embrace both seasons and enjoy both of them,
Discover yourself.